I was told by my friend not to write so much rubbish on boring topics like business; try some other more interesting topics. Business is a guy’s problem. Just leave it as that. @$#%^&*()_+ …
When you approach a girl openingly by saying “hi”, she would reply, “I have a boy-friend.” or “Buy me a drink, then I will talk to you.” or “You are not my type, so buzz off.” or “You are so cute, talk to my hand.”
Am I deformed? Did I do any wrong to piss the ladies so much that I can’t even start normally as a friend? Am I a social retard? Many unanswered questions. Why can’t we be friends first before the need to judge whether I am of boy-friend potential? Why do girls always, within 30 seconds of their interaction with you, only thought of whether they will have sex or not afterwards?
Human Race
Modern human started evolving 350,000 - 600,000 years ago. Loosely, the “human” race used to have two branches, Neanderthal and modern Homo Sapiens. Both deriving from a chimp-like ancestor between 5 - 10 million years ago.
The Neanderthals
Neanderthal cranial capacity is thought to have been as large as that of modern humans, perhaps larger, indicating that their brain size may have been comparable, or larger, as well. Study showed Neanderthal and modern human brains were the same size at birth, but by adulthood, the Neanderthal brain was larger than the modern human brain. Neanderthal males were heavily built with robust bone structure. They were much stronger than Homo sapiens, having particularly strong arms and hands. It simply implied that Neanderthals were more intelligent and stronger than modern Homo sapiens. They should have survived but didn’t.
Females were similarly featured.
Neanderthals were almost exclusively carnivorous and apex predators. Both male and female hunted together, alongside with their youngs. They did not practise specialization. Studies on Neanderthal body structures have shown that they needed more energy to survive than any other species.
About 55,000 years ago, the weather began to fluctuate wildly from extreme cold conditions to mild cold and back in a matter of a few decades. Neanderthal bodies were well suited for survival in a cold climate—their barrel chests and stocky limbs stored body heat better than the Cro-Magnons. However, the rapid fluctuations of weather caused ecological changes to which the Neanderthals could not adapt; familiar plants and animals would be replaced by completely different ones within a lifetime. Neanderthals' ambush techniques would have failed as grasslands replaced trees. A large number of Neanderthals would have died during these fluctuations, which peaked about 30,000 years ago.
Most discoveries showed that both male and female sustained deep bone injuries, suspected to have come about through life-threatening joint-hunting. The parents once killed would cause the youngs being on site to be unable to survive, without parents’ protection and nursing.
Modern Homo Sapiens
Compared to the Neandertals and other late archaic humans, modern humans generally have more delicate skeletons. Their skulls are more rounded and their brow ridges generally protrude much less. They rarely have the occipital buns found on the back of Neandertal skulls. They also have relatively high foreheads, smaller faces, and pointed chins.
Most modern homo sapiens used specialization, i.e., the guys go out to hunt in groups, while the girls huddled together as fruit gatherers under protection of some guys or among themselves. The youngs stay with their mothers. This specialization allowed modern homo sapiens to survive any changing climates, a key to survival of the species. During this time, a hierarchical society automatically evolved.
Females, being frequently detached from the males, would naturally and obviously choose to mate with the hunters that would bring back their sabre-tooths or mammoths to procreate their next generation. The females presume (rightly so) the best genes must come from the best hunters. But, hunting was a treacherous activity. Many hunters didn’t return after the hunt. There was therefore an overwhelming majority of females as the females were huddled centrally with little or no danger. Polygamies were common affairs, i.e., the stronger hunters would have plenty of females, siring many kids. The frequent social interactions amongst the females during the fruit-gatherings ensured that the female jealousy was reduced to the minimum.
From these gatherings, the social skill of the surviving females way exceeds the males by a good mile.
The present days
Fast forward to present days. We no longer need to learn how to hunt animals. Instead the males are taught specialization for each and every single trade-able skill in school. The most able tradesmen automatically get the best gals and multiple-partners.
It is in the guys’ nature and interest to exercise and win friendships, comradeships among his guy counter-parts during their studentship. They do so by playing team sports. In school, guys will play football while the gals watch by the side. Social training for gals already starts at that football pitch. They establish a hierarchical system whereby the best looking gals will have a higher social standing and will be able to choose the guy of her choice, subject of course to their tribal council’s endorsement. On the other hand, guys will still be kicking that silly white ball round the field clueless about his social expectation. This naturally explains why even hot guys are tongue-tied when approaching a pretty gal, who already showed obvious interest.
But, unfortunately the total length of man is constant (My Theory). I know:
- A guy who bedded 65 gals within a short 5-8 years. He dolled himself up and go to gym like 6 days a week. But he is right now real miserable as he couldn’t hold a roughneck job for more than 2 years each time.
- Another guy who is a young, very handsome and aspiring qualified doctor but found no gal friend even though he is the sports champion for that country.
And, I think which of these guys makes a better hunter is obvious. But, life is never fair.
I can understand where all these come from ...
It is nothing wrong with that, but our genes have not evolved as quickly, we are still stuck at about 200,000 years ago. There were no contraception then, every sex might involve a child-bearing risk. So gals are extremely careful about who they want to go to bed with.
Gals, before you go out there and ask guys to talk to your hand. Do think of my Theory of Man who’s length is fixed. If they are good hunters, they will be a little of a social retard, otherwise, they might be suave, but you will expect to live in much poorer conditions.
These days, like what Bill Gates have said, “The Nerds will rule the world.” I suspect he must have had it hard too when young.
To be a strong skirt-chaser, please read:
(1) The Game By Neil Strauss
(2) Sperm Wars by Robin Baker
After you have read these books and practised (takes about 3 years), you would have a nuclear weapon at your disposal. Do be kind to the gals. Don't cheat them. They are actually quite clueless about their state and behaviour.
ps: LOL. I know. Even skirt-chasing also involved philosophy. My bad. 职业病 ...
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